Friday, June 22, 2007
posted on: 1:43 AM
P L E A S U R E H E R
Just like man’s innate lustful desires, there’s also ever wonder if you have what it takes to keep satisfied in bed? Men are result-oriented species that want to give the especially when the topic comes into lovemaking. Most of the time while indulging in the satisfaction and after-glow of the superb dive and actions, would you pause and wonder is she is pleased with your performance? You know she was not impressed by your lovemaking skills and you badly want to make her feel like a goddess. Guys just can’t live with that, even if we had held her to compensate for not living up to her expectations. We all want to find out how to make her croon in bed, yes? So now, we speak to the girls and force confessions out of them. Here they are…….
(1) - Bottom line. Do not rip her panties off before you are certain she’s dripping wet (to the clueless, we mean, down there). Most guys commit this unforgivable sin that throws her libido down the drain. When do you know she’s ready then? Look for clues like a dirty look that pleads ‘now, please’. If you are unsure, slide a finger (gently!!!) into her undies and check for her wetness level.
(2) - We cannot survive without toys, both as a child and as an adult. Be naughty. What are sex toys for? Bring her to a shop that sell sex-toys and observe. See which trinkets she pays most attention to. Get them there and then, head home, and check them out. Together. If she’s the shy kind, get them secretly and brandish them on get-lucky night. If unfortunately, she simply shies away from sex toys, pretty lacy lingerie would have to suffice. And if you are a poor chap, kitchen equipment like whip cream and honey can work wonders too. Think sensual licks.
(3) - Show her your gentle side. Once in a while, she might want it fast and furious, but more often than not slow and steady wins the girl. Shower her with gentle caresses and loving touches to show her your love.
(4) - It has been proven that guys get more stimulated than the women whose breasts they lick. Girls are not just breasts. During love-making, stimulate various parts of her body and find the spot that gets her begging for more. Don’t be shy, ask her for feedback. She’ll appreciate it.
(5) - Stroke her hair. Touch her face. Tell her she’s beautiful, that she’s sexy. Trace your fingers down her body, look into her eyes and engage in a long French kiss. Caress her thighs and slowly build her desire and expectation before entering her.
(6) - Learn your ABCs. We all know the clits is the most sensitive part on a women, so you should never go rough directly on it. Instead, use your tongue to trace the alphabet (from A to Z) around her clit. If you are doing it right, she should come by the letter R. For that special rush, suck on an ice cube before going down on her.
(7) - Knowing when she’s coming. Usually, women tremor just before they are about to come. If you have a long night ahead, stop seconds before you think she’s going to come (unless she’s screaming for you not to). Repeat this a few times to build up sensation and yearning. Your girl will have the best one she had in weeks when she does come.
(8) - We all know how tiring it is after a shag. But, resist the temptation of just rolling over and falling asleep (unless she does that first). Doing this makes her feel like a sex machine, particularly if she has not been satisfied. If you really are shagged, pull out those old boring movies and watch them with her. Hopefully, she will find them boring and fall asleep. If you fall asleep first, she can at least tell herself that it was the boring movie that made you do that.
(9) - Tell her which part of the love-making turns you on the most. This gives her a hint and directions to pleasure you the way you want it. Ask her to do the same. Communication will pave the way for a steamy next session. Tip: “Get her to sit on you with her back facing you. That way, you’ll have a much higher chance of hitting the legendary G-spot.”
(10) - There’s nothing much smoother than using lubricants for pleasure. Experiment. There are lubricants on the market that make your skin tingle or heat up. Remember to go for only water-based ones, though, unless you’re hoping to become a daddy. Oil-based ones may damage the condom.
(11) - Speaking of condoms, ribbed, vibrating, or spiral shaped variations can heighten the pleasure. Don’t think of wearing a condoms as a chore. They can spice up your sex life and knowing she’s protected will ensure fun on her side, making her more naughty and adventurous. Well, well, wouldn’t we like that?
Baseline - Explore all possibilities. Love knows no boundaries, so does your love-making. Take each step slowly to discover what you and your girl can give each other!
Dessy Desmond Tan.
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