Friday, July 6, 2007
posted on: 2:44 AM
Flirt Your Way In S.T.Y.L.E
- Every issue XXXX will bring you tips and know-how to be a Singaporean-breed Casanova. In our debut issue of XXXX, the editorial team will start the engine roaring by getting tips from women on how they want their man to flirt with them.
01- How to carry yourself?
Your posture says everything about you. Arch your back and stick out your chest (not like those you do in “attention mode” but rather) take up space, feel confident. Don’t just sit there, try it out now! If you’re talking to a girl, stand no more than an arm’s length away. Don’t intimidate her by cornering her, but stand a little closer than you usually do. Maintain an open body position at all times. Never fold your arms or put your hands in your pockets. If you want to test to see if she’s interested, try to take a back and if she takes a step closer, it’s good sign. If she doesn’t, don’t worry, she probably just needs time.
02- Toss a few winks at her.
The eyes can be your most effective tool for flirting. Use your eyes to give powerful stares of desire. It’s possible to make a girl’s heart skip a beat by giving her a playful, lusty wink. Do it professionally. If you’re walking by a girl you’ve got the hots for, give her a 2 to 3 second stare and slowly (I mean slowly) glance away. Smile just as you start to look away. She’ll get the message and you might just receive a smile in return.
03- The gentle touch.
Guys have to walk a fine line when it comes to physical touch. When moving into crowded places or while crossing the road, take extra care of her. Gently, guide her with a light touch on the shoulder or hold her by the elbow. She’ll appreciate that extra care attention. Don’t go overboard with your sweaty-palm all over her, you might freak her out by appearing “touchy”.
04- Sound interested.
Women appreciate attention more than anything else. When she speaks, listen (not just one ear in and out the other). Your eyes shouldn’t wander away from her lips or cleavage even if that interests you more. Give more personal opinion once in a while and without interrupting her, respond to what she is saying.
05- What do I say?
Keep the conversation light, nothing too serious or in-depth. Flatter her when she looks good on a date or if you feel good about your day out with her. Be sincere, be honest. You can tease her playfully occasionally, but don’t dampen her pride. Feel confident; don’t look away while you’re talking to her. No fidgeting.
06- Feel good about yourself.
No matter how you look, try to feel good about it! Girls love guys who are sure of themselves. A confident and self-assured man is a major turn-on (that’s why girls are always falling for cocky jerks). Feeling good and natural will emit inner confidence.
07- Triple E Rule.
Enthusiasm. Excitement. Energy. Fully charge yourself with triple Es before meeting her. You’ve got to be in a positive mind frame to be an effective flirt. If you’re kicking out good vibes, your target will pick up the signals and come to you.
- So don’t be a woodblock!
She won’t like to hug a tree!?!
Dessy Desmond Tan.
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