Tuesday, July 24, 2007
posted on: 1:18 PM
LAST, NOT FAST.
Remember the story of the tortoise and the hare? Slow and steady wins the race. You may love to go full throttle, but your girl may not have even started her engine yet. Learning to last combined with pleasure making skills will win you a gold award in bed.
In every sport, warming up is a must to achieve the best results. To attain the greatest pleasures for you and partner in the bedroom, it is no exception either. Learn the tips of foreplay and keep her wanting more.
You are ready, but your girl isn’t. Prepare her for a long night of passion with adequate foreplay.
- FOREPLAY -
Gliding > No, we’re not talking about planes here, but your hands. Lightly brush your hand across her entire body, and we don’t mean just the more common erogenous areas.
Go Single > Slide a finger down her ears and neck. Gently plant single kisses on her eyelids.
Need to Knead > Instead of squeezing her tits and butt like they are absent of nerves, try kneading them gently; yes, as you would do dough.
Explore Her Inner Desires > More specifically, her inner thighs. Contrary to common belief, they are a woman’s most erogenous zone.
She’s ready, and so are you. Men have a refractory period before they can engage in round two of lovemaking, so go slow to prevent premature ejaculation from spoiling her fun.
- ACTION -
Take A Deep Breath > In fact, take many deep breaths, especially when you feel yourself nearing climax. The slow breathing prolongs lovemaking and relaxes your body for a better orgasm.
Stand > We’re not talking about THAT, but your position. Alright, maybe not standing (it’s not exactly the most comfy position), but try not to lie down. Positions like the classic missionary position forces your concentration to be split so you do not come as quickly as if you laid back and let her do all the work.
Double The Pleasure > The two most sensitive area for guys are near prostate and just below the head of the penis. Alternate the depth of penetration to increase sensation for both parties yet enabling you to last longer.
Perform > Enhance your stamina with external aid. There are condoms available on the market, like Performa by Durex. The special lubricant allows for delayed ejaculation.
Go Kegel > For those who prefer to go au natural, contract the muscles that you use to control unrination for 2 to 3 seconds and relax. Repeat this mini discreet exercise as often as you like to strengthen the muscles you use during sex.
Take A Break > Every time she comes, pull away to give both of you a mini-break. She will appreciate it, and so will you, when you eventually climax with a mind blowing and prolonged orgasm.
Round 2, Action > You will last longer naturally on your second lovemaking session, so if your girl is still begging for more, go for it.
AND LASTLY…..
Cuddle her to sleep!!! No level of performance you show will mean anything to her if you flip over and dose off after you’re done. With that in mind, we wish you a very happy lovemaking session.
Dessy Desmond Tan.
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