Sunday, July 29, 2007
posted on: 8:15 PM
UNDER THE SHEETS
You had a hot night with her. But when you decided to give it another go today, she expressed reluctance and pushed you away. Your mind drifts and you start to wonder what you did to made her upset. Be sensitive to her and she will reciprocate in turn. Today we explores love-making and how best you can both enjoy the experience.
01- SLOPPY FLOPPY. Girls regards lovemaking as an important part of the courtship ritual. So guys, respect that. Your girl is going to kiss you but not when you have a choking breath that kills and stubble that prick. Put on some deodorant, body spray or go under the shower, make sure you smell great so she’ll find you delicious enough to devour! Make sure you cut your nails (toenails included) so that when you start your foreplay, you won’t hurt her as you enter from below.
02- HANDLE WITH CARE. When she’s getting into the mood, don’t rush into ripping her clothes apart (even if you want to), take it slow. Start with the kisses, but bear in mind too much tongue action might twist the romance of it. Blow her light kisses occasionally on her forehead, on the cheeks, behind her ears, on the neck or even the breast areas. Don’t get too engross in flicking your tongue and give her time breathe. If you want to give her a love bite, do it on areas where she can cover them up. This means, not the neck (try breasts, shoulders instead).
03- BRING IT ON. It is not polite to dive in without her acknowledgement. Foreplay is not optional, it is crucial and does miracles! Run your fingers down her neck, spine and to her waist level slowly, tickling her gently. Get her into the mood; most women tend to hit orgasm at some point during lovemaking after more than 20 minutes of foreplay. She’ll beg you for more! Ambience matters too; light up table candles, dim the lights, burn some scents and play some smoothing music to get the mood right.
04- READY TO TAKE OFF. Fumbling when taking off her bra and panties are booby trays for most guys. Instead of ripping them off in hurry and revealing how unskillful you are, do it slowly with style. Run your fingers around her pelvic bone; move down slowly to the edge of the panties. Gently move inside her panties from the edge and to the front (now she’s aware what you want). Make your way to her groin, between her legs. When she’s wet and sizzling hot and you’re sure she’s ready, now take off her panties and meal is served!
05- NO PINCHING. Squeeze, yes gentle ones can arouse her but not pinch. Don’t appear to be attacking her breasts so often that it might hurt her especially when you start to twiddle her nipples with your thumb and forefinger. Kiss and sucking her breasts is fine, your girl may be cool with it but no teeth involved please. In fact, the upper chest region and the cleavage are very sensitive areas. Gently slide your fingers through her hair and blow her kisses on her breasts to turn her on.
06- GIVE IT YOUR BEST SHOT. If you want her to do a blow for you, kindly request her or coax her into doing it. Most women are not yet comfortable with the idea. Get her aroused or perhaps, give her an oral stimulation yourself first then she might return you with one. Avoid nudging her head towards your penis. Stroke her hair, her cheek or her body to show you appreciate what she is doing. Most prefer you to lie back while they move themselves. Warn her when you are about to ejaculate, if she backs off, then you might just release it on her body to make it really kinky! If she’s not into it, change the setting to the bathroom where it is easier to clean up the mess.
07- PUMPING BUNNY. Upon entrance, don’t get so heated up that you start jamming and banging her against the wall (unless she is the one that initiates). Start with slow thrusts and build up the speed. Avoid pushing against her because your hipbone might dig into her tummy or thigh and hurt her. Build up some rhythm so as to avoid her ending up breathless. If she loses her chance to be pleasured, it is seldom tht you’ll get yours too.
08- GET WET AND WILD. Falling into routine is the most common problem among couples. Women like to be fed with pleasant, wild surprises once in awhile. Invite her into the shower room, out on the beach, in your spacious MPV or in different parts of the house (when the rest of the family is away). Women rarely believe in signature positions, rather they go with the feeling at that very moment. If she’s game for it, give her a quickie on a weekend out to spice up the boring routine.
09- PRIVATE VERSUS PERVERT. some conversations are better left within the bedroom or just between the two of you. It is kinky to whisper some common lingo between the two of you in her ears. Sometimes, she will be tickled happy if she gets it but always avoid sounding like a pervert in the dirty talk or start ordering her to perform certain stunts… if she is not in the mood for such conversations, you might can scar her emotionally if you are not careful.
10- YOU WANT OUT. Leaving straight after you got what you wanted isn’t really a responsible act, getting dressed lighting a cigarette and leaving immediately after the job shows that you can’t be bothered of what come next. If you have to leave urgently, tuck her in bed gently, give her a big hug and kiss to let her know you will be back. If you need a shower to cool off, I’m pretty sure that she wouldn’t mind popping under the showerhead with you where you both of you can indulge in even more intimacy.
Dessy Desmond Tan.
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