WHAT YOUR SEXUAL FETISHES & FANTASIES MEAN?
Let’s be frank here. How many of you have never fantasized about your best friend’s hot mama or getting whipped by a nymphet dressed in French maid costume? Whether you fantasize or have already tried some of the following, read on to find out what these more common sexual fetishes / fantasies could say about you.
UNIFORMS
You wonder why there are so few policewomen around or why you don’t fall sick often enough to have nurses in their white starched uniform to tend to your every need (yes, EVERY need). If you are into uniforms that convey authority, it likely that you were brought up under an overly strict supervision and hence developed a fetish for uniformed authority. You desire to break free and defy authority but didn’t, hence you are fascinated by women who hold such positions. You look up to women as the stronger dominating sex. If you love seeing girls in nurse/French maid/teacher uniforms and attire, you are actually more traditional and miss the olden times when women were subjected to restraining definitions of gender roles and had to play a submissive role.
SADOMASOCHISM
Sadomasochism is the sexual pleasure gained from inflicting pain on others while masochism is the gratification gained from the other party inflicting pain on him/herself. You may think yourself free of such inclinations, but love bites and the occasional spanks are only a thin line away from SM. Usually boisterous in nature, you enjoy instant gratification and you are a less sensitive individual. You enjoy control and power while seeking more excitement in an otherwise mundane life.
BONGAGE
Whether the activity is trying or being tied up, you enjoy every bit of it, even if it means that your wrists may be cut by the tight ropes binding them too tight. Bondage is a common male fantasy. Years of being in control have made us want to feel helpless for once, under the knowledge that our lovers will free us should a fire or earthquake suddenly break out. You tend to be in a position of power, hence the prospect of not having to make any decisions for some moments appeal to you. Those who enjoy binding their partners, on the contrary, usually feel a loss of control over their lives, which they feel are not heading the way they want.
PHONESEX
Even though your girlfriend is lying next to you, you’d rather she had been at home and on the line with you, so you can jerk off to the sounds of her deep breathing. You feel restricted by the social presence of others, and long to be liberated and free to show the true you. You dislike commitment but have low self-esteem, believing yourself to be not as desirable as you would like.
RAPE
The rapist reported on Crime watch make your blood boil, yet a little part of you secretly wonder how overcoming a wildly thrashing female form must feel. Often organized and in control of yourself, you must learn to loosen up and be willing to let your character have a chance to surface and develop. There is room for interesting potential if you learn not to be overly concerned about what others think of you.
GYMNAST
As you watch the latest Olympics Gymnastics, you fantasize about having one of them as your girlfriend. The amazing maneuvers that their flexible joints allow for mean a whole night of fun exploring moves only heard in books. You are practical and down to earth, yet potentially adventurous in your sexual exploits. Ever willing to try new things that are not against your morals or ideals, you are the stable man that women seek a marriageable material.
Disclaimer: This article is not responsible for any experiments gone wrong nor are we saying that people with fetishes and fantasies are dysfunctional in anyway.
