Woke up late and don't feel like going to work. But in the end i drag myself off the bed and head to work still. Was seriously bored at work, so i decided to buy a new screen-protector as i seriously needed one. I bought this that allow me some privacy when using phone in the public, you can see it right clear only when it face direct to you, if it from the side (45 degree) you cannot see anything or maybe just some back-light, isn't it cool!? Sianz, Huihui sound so sleepy so i ask her go to her lala land instead. Erm, she asked perhaps to had a meet up tomorrow after both of our work, i am still thinking about it. Everyone only can tell me this, *Tomorrow would be a better day*. Make me think of the song and this is how it goes, "..always look on the bright side of life..." Lolx. =)
"Romance For You?"
Alinne posted this. "Romance for you?"- http://swittindulgencebliss.blogspot.com/2007/09/romance-fer-u.html Romantic comes in different ways of how you planned it. Of course the most effective ways are always the most costly to think of. Gifts from Tiffany & Co definitely melt a lady's heart. Bring her to places with surroundings decorated with her favourite flowers (for eg. Roses) definitely touched her. Posh restaurant, with that kind of ambience and delicious foods of her favourites, make her the world most lucky women. Of course, not all could effort that kinda money, anyone of the above mention may had already burst his current month's limits.
So that's where simple moves a guy makes/moves counts when highlander is out of the topic. - Queue up for hours just to get something she's craving for? - Treat her like your precious princess no matter when. - Give her surprises, such as love letter, simple cooking or just a hand-made gift.
But sometime girls just like to keep the highlander in their mouth but the non-highlander in their hearts. So poor guys who don't aware of that would really suffers, meanwhile the non-stop complaining from the girlfriend, claiming and demanding of having her Tiffany & Co immediately.
I totally agree with this, from Alinne...........
"If one have to be told what to do and then carry out that actions after being told so, things really become pointless then. It's like doing for the sake of the other party asking you to, because by doing so, you know the other party would be happy. It's not like something you will do it yourself from the start".
"To love someone, you really need to put in alot of efforts and patience. "I Love You" comes with great responsiblity"
It really such a turn-off when you need to direct someone to do something you really wish that he/she would do it out of her own will, at least not being told to do so. Or i should say, i personally doesn't like to being told what to do, but if i don't know or didn't realise about it, please just drop a hint and i think that will do the job.
"I Love You" comes with great responsiblity. Just like what used in Spiderman the movies, with greater power comes greater responsiblity. Sometime i just wonder does people who say "i love you" understand what kinda responsible they are holding. But how many in the world could simply make it looks so simple? To maintain a relastionship isn't as easy as it seems to be. Not only remember that he/she is your partner or saying "i love you" day and night and cuddle her to bed.
Remember to balance the "taking" & "giving" within a relationship. Too much on either one it definitely unhealthy for the relationship. But to the complex of everything, being too calculative are also a killer point during a relationship. Of course this don just falls on guys, but girls also at times.
To me, being natural and let it flows as the feeling goes would be the best. That's where things you do are for sure out of the heart. But that's doesn't mean sitting there not doing anything and let it flow. Don't be such a stupid person with a square-shaped brain, let it be more flexible and it will do you good. *Sincere* that's what matter the most from a girl's point of view. Once you miss out this, you're done as it fatal.
18th September, 2007 Tuesday night went drinking with Gary. Before that we head to the Hongkong restaurant at Cineleisure for late dinner. What the f***, i had western at a Hongkong restaurant? Promise to try something more in-house the next visit. lolx. Think i can't really think properly as i did some funny things in the end. Sucks! Shshssss...!!! =X
Just before bed, was on phone with Alinne, she's still so cute with that voice of hers. But still as troublesome as before, cause she made me change and reload her photo in my blog link 2 times when i am high on alcohol. Haha. To be or not to be? =.=
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Name: Dessy Desmond Tan Blognic: DESSY DESMOND Age/Sex/Race: 30/Male/Chinese Religion: Free Thinker Status: currently: Single / Attached Citizenship: Singaporean Birthday: 29th October 1982 Employer: Acer Computer (SG) Pte Ltd Store: Courts Jurong Point Department: Information Technology Positions: Sales Promoter Products: Desktops/Laptops/Netbooks/Tablet
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- Acer - Sales Promoter *Currently*
- Packard Bell - Sales Promoter
- Harvey Norman - Sales Representative
- D' Monty - Operation & Marketing Manager
- Courts - Sales Product Specialist
- Goldlion - Sales Promoter
- Emotive Concept of Singapore - Chief Event Coordinator
- Selfix DIY - Sales Assistant
- Into E Project - Event Coordinator
- Shing Lee - Warehouse Assistant