What's ur say? Case study - Is ur Bf like that also?
"My boyfriend and I are very different. He loves me alot. But he is always late, hate Sushi (which is my favourite), and sometimes flirts with other girls right in front of me at parties. I've been trying to change him for months, but it's not really working. How can i change a man's bad habits?"
How would you wanna help this girl here? uhmm...
Hi. Your boyfriend loves you a lot. But I noticed you didn't say whether you love him a lot. Can you change a man's habits? Yes! But only if he himself wants to change and want it desperately. Otherwise, no, it will be almost impossible to change. You should accept his flaws or find someone else. His tardiness and culinary preferences are annoying but forgivable foibles. You will just have to get used to being ready at 10pm when he say 9pm. And you can go out with your own girlfriends when you get craving for Sushi. But a man of class would not insult you by hitting on other girls in your presence. You have to think hard about what you can put up with. If a man cheats on you during courtship, then chances are good he will do it during your marriage. Don't delude yourself. There is truth in cliches. What you see is what you get. And old habits die hard. If you are so troubled by his behaviour, then you must decide for yourself whether to stay or leave. Whatever you do, don't nag him, or he will withdraw inwards or lash out in resentment. Think long and hard. But remember, there are plenty of great men out there! (:
"What will I do?" She's been nice to me and we chat almost everynight but seriously i'm not sure if she really treat me someone special like how I treat her as one in my heart.
"Quit playing games with my heart" Backstreet Boys Quit Playing Games (With My Heart) Even in my heart I see Youre not being true to me Deep within my soul I feel Nothings like it used to be Sometimes I wish I could turn back time Impossible as it may seem But I wish I could so bad baby Quit playing games with my heart I shouldve known from the start I live my life the way To keep you coming back to me Everything I do is for you So what is it that you cant see? Sometimes I wish I could Turn back time, impossible as it may seem But I wish I could so bad baby You better quit playin games with my heart Baby, baby, the love that we had was so strong Dont leave me hangin here forever Oh baby, baby, this is not right Lets stop this tonight Baby, quit playin games Quit playin games with my heart
Dessy Desmond Tan. - the end -
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Name: Dessy Desmond Tan Blognic: DESSY DESMOND Age/Sex/Race: 30/Male/Chinese Religion: Free Thinker Status: currently: Single / Attached Citizenship: Singaporean Birthday: 29th October 1982 Employer: Acer Computer (SG) Pte Ltd Store: Courts Jurong Point Department: Information Technology Positions: Sales Promoter Products: Desktops/Laptops/Netbooks/Tablet
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- Acer - Sales Promoter *Currently*
- Packard Bell - Sales Promoter
- Harvey Norman - Sales Representative
- D' Monty - Operation & Marketing Manager
- Courts - Sales Product Specialist
- Goldlion - Sales Promoter
- Emotive Concept of Singapore - Chief Event Coordinator
- Selfix DIY - Sales Assistant
- Into E Project - Event Coordinator
- Shing Lee - Warehouse Assistant