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Sunday, January 18, 2009
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What's ur say? Case study - Is ur Bf like that also?

"My boyfriend and I are very different. He loves me alot. But he is always late, hate Sushi (which is my favourite), and sometimes flirts with other girls right in front of me at parties. I've been trying to change him for months, but it's not really working. How can i change a man's bad habits?"

How would you wanna help this girl here? uhmm...

Hi.
Your boyfriend loves you a lot. But I noticed you didn't say whether you love him a lot. Can you change a man's habits? Yes! But only if he himself wants to change and want it desperately. Otherwise, no, it will be almost impossible to change.
You should accept his flaws or find someone else. His tardiness and culinary preferences are annoying but forgivable foibles. You will just have to get used to being ready at 10pm when he say 9pm. And you can go out with your own girlfriends when you get craving for Sushi.
But a man of class would not insult you by hitting on other girls in your presence. You have to think hard about what you can put up with.
If a man cheats on you during courtship, then chances are good he will do it during your marriage. Don't delude yourself. There is truth in cliches. What you see is what you get. And old habits die hard. If you are so troubled by his behaviour, then you must decide for yourself whether to stay or leave. Whatever you do, don't nag him, or he will withdraw inwards or lash out in resentment. Think long and hard. But remember, there are plenty of great men out there! (:


"What will I do?"
She's been nice to me and we chat almost everynight but seriously i'm not sure if she really treat me someone special like how I treat her as one in my heart.

"Quit playing games with my heart"
Backstreet Boys
Quit Playing Games (With My Heart)

Even in my heart I see
Youre not being true to me
Deep within my soul I feel
Nothings like it used to be
Sometimes I wish I could turn back time
Impossible as it may seem
But I wish I could so bad baby
Quit playing games with my heart
I shouldve known from the start
I live my life the way
To keep you coming back to me
Everything I do is for you
So what is it that you cant see?
Sometimes I wish I could
Turn back time, impossible as it may seem
But I wish I could so bad baby
You better quit playin games with my heart
Baby, baby, the love that we had was so strong
Dont leave me hangin here forever
Oh baby, baby, this is not right
Lets stop this tonight
Baby, quit playin games
Quit playin games with my heart







Dessy Desmond Tan.
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